What Our Parents Didn't Teach Us

Episode 4: Juliana Rabbi [Remote Work Coach]

April 14, 2021 Courtney Nicole / Juliana Rabbi Episode 4
Episode 4: Juliana Rabbi [Remote Work Coach]
What Our Parents Didn't Teach Us
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What Our Parents Didn't Teach Us
Episode 4: Juliana Rabbi [Remote Work Coach]
Apr 14, 2021 Episode 4
Courtney Nicole / Juliana Rabbi

From the power of a smile to asking for help, to probably not playing poker with babies, join us this week as Courtney Nicole interviews digital nomad and remote career coach Juliana Rabbi.
 
Check out Juliana's Website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and LinkedIn to learn more about what she does.

Want to engage with Courtney Nicole? Check out Courtney Nicole's LinkedInSidecar Solutions, and Nonpareil Coaching for next steps.

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From the power of a smile to asking for help, to probably not playing poker with babies, join us this week as Courtney Nicole interviews digital nomad and remote career coach Juliana Rabbi.
 
Check out Juliana's Website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and LinkedIn to learn more about what she does.

Want to engage with Courtney Nicole? Check out Courtney Nicole's LinkedInSidecar Solutions, and Nonpareil Coaching for next steps.

Courtney Nicole:

Hello and welcome to the podcast, What Our Parents Didn't Teach Us. This is a place where we will be creating space to discuss all the lessons that we've learned along the way that have led us to where we are today. We'll have conversations with entrepreneurs and freelancers and people from all over the world about what it means to be successful. And the things that we've learned that we hope to pass on to you. I'm your fearless host, courtney Nicole. I'm a coach that currently resides in Denver, Colorado with my wife, two dogs and plus or minus 27 plants. And I can't wait to talk to you. I am here with Juliana. Welcome to the, What Our Parents Didn't Teach Us podcast. We are going to have a conversation today around all of our adventures. Juliana comes from Mexico, so she gets to tell us about a world away from my lovely little winter wonderland of Colorado. And we will just have a fun conversation. I think it's really important for people, especially in this day and age to connect and share the lessons we've learned. The lessons we were learning a hundred years ago were all about community and making sure that we knew the things we needed to survive in our little pods. And I think we live in a global society now. So being able to connect with people around the globe and share the stories and what things have happened in our lives, I think really empowers us. So tell us a little bit about what you do and some of your favorite life lessons.

Juliana:

Thanks for having me here. It's a pleasure. And I am in Mexico at the moment as I said, but I'm originally from Brazil. I was born in Brazil and then lived in Europe for 15 years. So kind of international, you can say. I'm currently in Mexico because the lifestyle that I chose allow me to do that. So I'm a digital nomad now. So I work and travel at the same time, and then I'm happy to be in Mexico at this time in this crazy time that we all need. So it's a, it's a good place to be. I'm happy to be here and connect with other people and yeah. Have a different experience of life in the middle of the pandemic still. But yeah, life can still be good in that. A lot of great things should be done.

Courtney Nicole:

Have you been in Mexico throughout the pandemic, or is that a place you moved to in the midst of it?

Juliana:

It's my first time in Mexico. So I moved here in November last year. Yeah. Before I was in Asia, then I went to Brazil. Stayed eight months there during the pandemic. And then Mexico since November, 2020.

Courtney Nicole:

That's amazing. So how many languages do you speak?

Juliana:

Three. Three. Portuguese, which is my native language, English and Spanish.

Courtney Nicole:

Wow. That's amazing. I can't imagine that there's anywhere in the world. You can't get by in. I started to learn German during the pandemic. That was just like a little adventure of mine and it is difficult. I had learned Spanish growing up cause I grew up in New Mexico and then learned a lot of Spanish just in work and things like that, but trying to learn German and it's just, I can't quite get past it. And part of it's the lessons in the duolingo is the app I'm using. But my goodness, I don't understand why they want me to learn how to say like, no, my parent doesn't paint on Sundays. Like, I don't know when I'm going to say that, but at least I'm learning.

Juliana:

Sometimes it doesn't make sense when you're starting the language. But I think the magic happens when you are able to communicate properly. When you pass the boring stage and the learning and grammar and all of that. But the thing I experienced with language is that it's not just speaking a different language based kind of. The access you have-total different experience to a new culture. To really connect with people at a different level. To read the books, they read to understand the news. It's like a completely different approach and experience when you do speak the language. So obviously I go to countries that I don't speak the language and then I have to use English. But when you can communicate with people in their own language, the experience is way more intense because the connection really will happen. So, keep going with your German might be worth it. The result.

Courtney Nicole:

Yes. I love that. Let's dive in a little bit on this topic of connection. Because you digital nomad you live in a lot of different cultures. How has your experience been with connection both before and after the pandemic? Because I did some time in Southeast Asia myself, and I found it very difficult in certain cultures just to make a connection. Because everything that we would have normally connected around was so different. In America, we might all gather around a beer, but over there, they're going to gather around a meal. And over here we may do board games, but over there they may do outdoor things and it's just different to try and connect. Have you found that that journey has been life-giving for you? Or do you feel like it's made it just more difficult as you move around?

Juliana:

I would say it's an exercise and I love doing it. It's practice, so obviously I have been traveling for many years now, so we kind of get a little bit easier once you practice that. But I remember one time, the first time I was in Morocco, for example, I went to visit one of those food market on the street. And I remember perfectly, there was some meat hanging with some flies around, and I said out loud in English. Right. And I was like, Oh, but that's very disgusting. It looks very dirty. And then I was with the chef. Chef from the cruise ship I was traveling with and he said, Oh, you shouldn't say that. That's disrespectful. That's the meat they eat. So you are allowed to not like it, but you shouldn't say it out loud. And then that sticks to my mind. And I was like, yeah, that was so unrespectful from my side. Because I might not eat that meat, I might find it dirty, but that's their reality. So it's not about not having my own opinion and my thoughts that's important. But it's being open to other realities because sometimes it's like, that's normal for them. And who am I to just arrive there? And in a quick glance just say, Oh, I know. And that applies to behaviors that applies to, traditions and all of that. So the more I traveled and what I try to, again, not lose my own opinion and my thoughts, but be open to other realities out there. People live in a different way and it can be very interesting to open and try to experience those things. So, it's easy also to be an expert or a traveler or digital nomad, or whatever you want to call it and just live in your own bubble, just connect with all the experts to stay, the luxurious places and rent a very nice place in the place where all the other experts are. This is good. This is a nice part of the experience, but I try as much as possible to connect with local people, local food and go to the places that they go and make friends in the country. And because open ups to, different experiences and it's very good. But it's an exercise I need to get rid of my own prejudice and my own thoughts to experience and see life from their perspective. And most of the time it's really amazing.

Courtney Nicole:

Yeah, that's gorgeous. I love that. I love the exercise side of it and just saying like, Hey, this is just something you need to work at. Just like anything else, you can get better at it. That's like saying, Hey, if you run on mountains, do you feel like it's different than when you run on ground? Or when you run on, like in the desert versus the rain. And you're like, I mean, yeah, it's different, but it's not wrong. It's just something I have to exercise. It's something I have to get used to and something I need to appreciate. Because one doesn't really pertain to the other. They're just different.

Juliana:

Yeah. And for me, there is no point of going to the other side of the world and be doing the same thing, except for the same things I would be doing at home. So I remember one, one friend told me I went to Thailand and I brought the backpack full of granola bars. Cause I didn't know how the food in Thailand was going to be. So I was eating granola bars all the time. I was like, It's okay, but I think you can experience all the things when you travel. Why aren't you going to replicate your life exactly the way it is that square whenever you travel the world. So I don't see the point of that. So I try to experience new thing. And obviously I have some things in my routine, in my habits, in my beliefs, that I want to keep doing, because that helps me to be productive, that helps me chill, to keep my body healthy and all of that, because in my situation, I'm working and traveling at the same time. So there is this balance that I need to find. And I keep trying to find that sometimes it's easier than others. But it's like some routine and some things I'm going to keep doing it doesn't matter where I am because I need to get my work done. But outside of that, they also try to be flexible and enjoy the experience, a different experience I can have in each country that I go in, every person that I connect in, every culture that I am exposed to, that's fascinating for me.

Courtney Nicole:

Yeah, no, I love that. You're talking about these different cultures and how important it is when you go overseas to just kind of embrace what they are. That's kind of like maybe if you think of cultures like adults groups and kids groups. If you went to a daycare versus if you went to a poker night with your friends. They are different. And what's the point of trying to play poker with a bunch of two-year-olds? And what's the point of trying to do lullabies with your poker group? Like you just, you have to understand that these cultures are different and there's something beautiful about them, but in order to appreciate that there is a certain amount that's letting go. So, how do you find the balance between the things that you really feel like you need to hold on to, like you said, the habits which make us, who we are and help us to keep in that track of success versus the things that aren't really important. Because I think a lot of us grow up with ideas, frozen perceptions, and all this other stuff around big parts of our life that come from our family of origin, or our experiences, or more than likely our traumas in life. And so we get to adulthood and then it's a question of. How much of this is important to who I will be and how much of it should I just let be who I was. So how do you find the balance in that?

Juliana:

Yeah, well, I'm still trying to find a balance. Sometimes it's easier. Sometimes it's not that easy. But I think it has a lot to do with having clarity about what I want in my life now. And I say now, because what career, professional, personal goals 10 years ago were very different than the goals at the moment, they, probably will be very different than the ones I have in five years time from now. So I think it's important to connect to what is important for me right now, which are the I which is the lifestyle I want to have, are my priorities. And on start building life that sense me. And aligned Because the decisions I want to make are almost opposite to what I was told from my what my know back home chose to leave their lives or people around me. They also make different choice. So there's a lot of stimulation and possibilities out there. So I think being aligned with, okay, what is important for me? What do I really want to achieve? It's easy to get lost in someone tells me that this is important that I should be doing this, that I should be doing that. So we kind of lose ourself in the process. And then at the end of the day, it's like, it's this empty feeling because I'm not really doing what I what is me is aligned to my family? So about being selfish. It's about understanding what do I care about? Which are the causes that are important to me, the things I want to really make into my life, think impact I make then based it creating though the community I'm part of the cause I'm going to support how I'm going to use my time, the things I'm going to read about and the people I want to spend time with and all of that. But because that keeps changing, I often to reevaluate, like, okay, let's go back and center. What is this to to what do want to do with my life? And then next time making decisions, have that.

Courtney Nicole:

Yeah, it does. I love that you said go back to your why. I talk all the time about go into a why and figuring out the core of what's really happening. So if you're just like, no, no, I can't eat that. Well, why? Or no, I can't drink that, or no, I don't like people like that. It's like, why, why, why? And I like to just be a kid. If there's something that I feel like is in the way of the success that I want, I want to go and do this thing, I want to travel to this place, and I feel like there's something that's stopping me and it's just a barrier to it, I always go with five. Like I need to answer the question why five times before I can really decide whether or not this is something that I need to just move out of the way or ignore or vault over or ask for help to move out of the way. But you really ask it five times. And by the time you get to the fifth why, you realize it's not as significant as you thought. Or maybe it's more, but at some point you need to get down to the brass tax of what is really going on here, because it's never what you think it is.

Juliana:

Yeah. And it applies to relationships, decisions you make like you said, what I'm going to eat. I'm going go, um, change, big decision. Am I going to move from one place to the other or stay longer? So for everything it's like being intentional about what we do and be careful about it. Because it's much more fun when you do it like that. We enjoy more the process. And think people around us will enjoy because at the end of the day, we are going to attract people who think in a similar way, not who live in our bubble, it's not what I'm talking about, but like be with people that you can do more of the things that you love and talk about those things and, you know, live a life aligned with those things. And not just, I don't want to be with people just because I have to be with them, but we are completely opposite or we see life in a different way. So it's about making choices, small every day.

Courtney Nicole:

Yeah. So I like to talk a lot about success, and I think any aspect of success is going to involve people. So we talked a little bit at the beginning of why different cultures are different and what separates us, but then can eventually bring us together. Are there any aspects that you found about people and community that are consistent regardless of where you've been in the world that you're just like, I don't care where you go, this ties us together. And sometimes it's silly things, like no matter where you go, people still have to eat and, go to the bathroom. But it's, there's other serious and more like tangible things that also happen. And what have you found really is like a common thread running through this global society.

Juliana:

It's a basic thing, but it's extremely effective, which is a smile. The power of smiling. Especially if you go to somewhere that we don't speak the language, like if you put a smile on your face, it opens doors for you. It's unbelievable. Like people will be more likely to help you. They can see that maybe you cannot communicate, you're struggling, but it's still the deep inside, they know that you are making an effort to, you know, be friendly and to get closer and understand. So the power of smile is, is there. I always try to use it. And sometimes it's easy to get, uh, you know, angry or I don't know, because you are struggling in a situation and you don't feel like smiling, but it's also to yourself, like, okay, I'm going to stop and breathe, and smile. And then the message I'm going to pass for other people will be much more pleasant. So smile is something that open doors. Wherever you go, even if you don't speak the language, if you don't know the culture, that's a big help. And then the other thing that I noticed a lot is that people are normally very likely to help you when you need on the way. Cause I mean, it's easy to trust people that we know already. Like the friends we grow up with, our family, it's easy to trust them because you know them. But when you are traveling, when you're living in different countries, sometimes you don't have years, you don't know the person for years. So it's like trust needs to happen shorter. And it's more difficult sometimes because it's like, can I really trust you? And small things such as I'm lost and I don't know how to speak the language, and then someone pointed the direction. I have no idea if that's the direction or not. Or I remember once in Thailand, they wrote an address in a Thai language. It's a different alphabet. I couldn't read that. It's just like symbols. And then I was showing that to the bus driver. Like, I want to just say I'm going here pointing to the, you know, the paper, but actually I didn't know what was written on the paper. It could be anything. And I ended up in the right place. So it's about trust in those small things. But that can make a big difference. So my point is, people are very likely to help you in those situations. More than we think, or more than I thought, at least. Maybe more people are open to it, but at the beginning it was like, strangers are going to help me. Why are they willing to, you know, stop what they're doing and spend time with me if we barely met. If you know, I I'm on the street, I ask for information and why are they open to do it? So I don't know why. I think it's just because people help people and I try to take it like, okay, if someone did a big thing to me and helped me, I keep that okay, I'm going to help someone else. It's kind of a chain that we keep sharing with other people and it's very powerful. So it's amazing to find people on the way that you have never met before and they're willing to help you. So maybe those two things, the power of a smile, even if you don't speak the language and don't know the culture and accept and enjoy that people are, most of people might say, not everybody, right? It's real life, but most of people are open and willing to help you on the way.

Courtney Nicole:

I think humanity is beautiful. I think we get snapshots of it. And the headlines never really represent the amazing things that people do, but there's just this whole undercurrent of energy, and I think it's very underrepresented, especially in modern culture. Because they're just moving so quickly. It's hard to stop and realize in that moment that there's power when you combine positive energy. So when you walk up to someone, and like you said, you smile on them or you open a door for them, or you help them in any way, shape, or form, it builds in this positivity. And just like darkness, like the only thing that can beat darkness is light. And I think the only thing that can help with the negativity we feel rising around us in culture as pandemics rage, and natural disasters, and fear is swelling up inside every person, is really to bring in compassion and love and joy and just that light. Because, it's in each of us and whether or not we can actually bring it to the front, bring it to bear, and have it for someone else is what makes it powerful. Because if you're a hermit and you only live in your own house, then the power you can wield can only impact you, and therefore it can't be multiplied. And I think any kind of positive power and positive interaction with another person is a multiplying effect. It's exponential. It's just like I can lift 20 pounds, but if we put our self together, together, we could lift 80 and you can't explain why that's a reality. I'm sure people with science backgrounds and maths could probably do that. But for me, it's like, it's just so beautiful. The fact that if we can do it together, we can raise so much more. And just seeing that exponential growth in societies, maybe you don't speak the language. And I know for me, It was like a very logical planned, you know, have it this just so way when I realized that I don't have the tools is when I usually have the best experiences. When my plans fall through is when I make the best memories. And I think that when you travel a lot so fun because there are more opportunities for things to go wrong. And I think that's one of the most powerful parts about like failure in general is because when you thought what was going to work out doesn't work out, that's when creativity steps in. That's when experience gets to be made. That's when all of this other stuff happens in power. Because we're not bound together by the things that we do well. We don't get them together and be like, we are the people who speak most eloquently and we're going to rule society. We come together and we're like, we're the ones that shouldn't be talking because of how much stuff we've had in our life. Or we're the ones that shouldn't have a voice because so many people have tried to shut us up. And we're the ones that have tried a hundred things and failed. And we're the ones that are going to succeed and that power through failure, through misunderstanding, through all these other things, can be so amazing and really transformative in culture. So I love witnessing that and seeing it. More importantly, being a part of it. When people are like, I want to tell you about all the great things I do, I'm like, eh, tell me why you failed. Tell me why you suck. Tell me what's terrible. Let's have a conversation around that. And then we'll actually be getting somewhere.

Juliana:

Because when we show our vulnerable side, It's not easy, but we connect deeply with people. Because it's very easy to put this makeup and look amazing on a stage and all look how cool I am, how amazing I am. Like what about what's happened on the way? The path and the learning on the way. And that's when people really connect with you. Cause being only successful and like someone everybody admires be very solitary. I'm not there yet, but that's what people who are there, this, hype. Oh, that's just look at them and all my goodness. I wish I were there, but. People don't connect with that. So I try to show like, kind of the backstage of the process and, you know, the ups and downs and the, the issues I have on the way and the difficulties, because that makes me human, which I am, but it's like, okay, I'm saying, and I'm making it perfect. I'm, you know, trying to create a life that I like that I'm happy that I have a nice impact, but there are ups and downs on the way. And that's when people come closer it because it's like, Oh, she's approachable. I want to talk to her. She'll probably understand this. So I do that a lot. For example, I share on social media about my life, because there's a digital moment, there is a lot of, misunderstanding and false expectation about, Oh, it's a perfect life, with your laptop working on the beach. Holidays and you're just having fun all the time. It's like, it's not like that. The other side of the reality I'm working, I have my business, so I like to show the other side of the story. That's when people really connect. They're like, okay, it's it doesn't need to be perfect to be good. And she's human. So I want to connect in this level.

Courtney Nicole:

I love that. I also think like a lot of society elevates people that are in the public eye. So movie stars and stuff like that. And the most, like the reason tabloids are so successful is because people want to know who they really are. If you read about all of, like how much they make and how many movies they've done, people are like, yeah, yeah, yeah. But if one of their staff members comes forward and is like, Hey, just so you know, behind the scenes, this guy like paid for my kid to go to college. Or this gal like seriously championed me when I was young. Like that's what people actually want to know-is not the finished piece. It's not the formal piece. Other thing I wanted to do was go back, cause right in the middle of there, you mentioned something which I think is very significant. You said all these people that are very high up and successful and I'm not there yet. And I just don't know if that's true, because I don't know based on what you've said so far, that your goal is to be high up. It sounded to me like your goal and your passion was to go and live around the world and be a digital nomad. And you're doing that. So whether or not you're doing it better than someone else, I don't think is the question. I think the point is that you are successful and there are people that want to be as successful as you are. So really accepting and getting to like stand in and live in that should be a really positive experience for you, because I think you are. And I've worked with clients before who are like, Oh, when I'm this, or when I'm successful, when I'm happy, when I'm fulfilled or all of this, like future stuff. And if you sit down and you say, okay, what does success mean? What does completion mean? What does launching this product mean? A lot of times what you'll realize is that the check marks, we need this, we need this, we need this, we need this, are already there. Or most of them are. And I think it's only when we can accept our success, that we can begin to move on to more success and greater success because otherwise it's just a hamster wheel. You're like as long as I run this fast! But why do you want to run that fast? And how will, you know, when you've run that fast? And what are the metrics? And how are you measuring this? So I'm just saying, it sounds to me like you're quite successful. And like I said, I only have successful people on this podcast. So obviously you already met the bar and you get to just enjoy that and say, okay, I'm successful. Now, who else do I want to be? And how else will I share it? Because no matter where you are in what you called, like up there or the ladder, or I prefer to not do hierarchies, but where you are in the progression of your life, somebody is behind you. Whether in age or experience or knowledge or something, there is someone in front of you and somebody behind you. And we're all just moving through life. And if you can accept that you are further along than someone, then you can step into the power that you have to empower the one behind you. To reach a handout when they stumble. And there are so many people that are behind you in the line. But until you're comfortable saying, hell yeah, I'm successful. Right fricking here is when you can actually be able to reach back. Otherwise we just stand at the front of the line, insisting that we haven't seen success or haven't made progress. And then we aren't empowered to help others that really do need us.

Juliana:

And then we never celebrate, because if there is always this feeling that there is something missing, we don't celebrate the achievements. And I totally agree with you. What I said that I don't see myself as like this solitaire leader, reference far away from others, you know, just on a pedestal, and then others are behind. That and how I don't feel myself, but yeah, I'm very successful if I compare myself with the previous Juliana before and the things I wanted to achieve and the journey that I followed. So I have a lot of, diaries, from previous years, like doing a lot of journaling. So from time to time, I read them. And it's so interesting to see first how my goals changed, like the things I wanted completely changed on the way. And also the things I wanted. Um, let's say from 10 years ago, um, the the same ones I wanted now. And the things I wanted, like two, three years ago that I was actively working to achieve them, I achieved them. So it's amazing. And it's a feeling that okay, I can keep improving my life. There are small choices I can do. And, you know, to do more of what I like, to have more impact in other people's too, expand my knowledge to share more. So there is always, for me, at least a bit of I want to keep improving. I'm not there yet. Like there I'm done that's it, life is perfect now because it's not like that. And, and my, my motivation also keep changing. So I hear about new things and meet new people, there are new things I want to do. So there's always a little bit more that I can do, but yeah, when I look back, I I'm happy to see the progression I have done, and this feeling of, I created the life I have. It was not just what my family expected from me or my friends did. And the easiest path to take was a bit disruptive. The choices I made towards my life and my career. And I'm proud of that because it makes sense to me. So I'm very happy to be where I am and I still have goals and, uh, you know, challenges that motivate me to keep going.

Courtney Nicole:

Sure. I love metaphors, so we think of life and success, and journey, and career and all these things, less like a mountain that some people get to the top and that's all you can do, maybe it's more like a theme park. Where it's like, Hey, I've ridden 8 of the 10 rides, or maybe I've ridden all the rides, but I haven't ridden them 10 times each, maybe I haven't ridden them with my eyes open the whole way, or maybe I haven't ridden them without screaming the whole way. But there's just different milestones. And just because you're there and just because you've done and ridden a couple of rides, doesn't change the effect that writing it again could be even more powerful, or that people are there riding it for the first time. And their experience and your experience, they're just not related. You can't just walk around the theme park being like, don't get on that ride, it's scary. Because for them, it could be exhilarating and you just need to let people start to live and accept that we're here for the experience. We're here for the rides. We're here for the stories. We're here for the memories. We're not here just to, say like, okay, check, check, check, check, check. Now I'm successful. And I can leave the theme park. You want a theme park where you're basically get to the end of the day and they start to kick you out. And you're like, Oh shoot. I was still having fun. And that's the kind of like life and death that I kind of want to lead when it's time for me to leave this earth and do whatever happens next in my spirit's journey, I'm just like, you know what? I don't want to leave. I'm having a great time and whether I am 40 years old, or I am 140 years old, I don't care. But at that moment, I just want to be like, all right. I mean, I had a great time. It's a bummer to leave, but you know, at least we had the memories.

Juliana:

Yeah. And it's much more fun when we are with other people. Right. Going to the park alone, it's not that fun. It's nice to be able to share, to hear other people screaming, to talk about the experience once they come to you, to have an ice cream together. So when we do the journey together, even if everyone is going their own rhythm and speed, it's fun to do that together. So back to what you mentioned about the community and all of that, that's extremely powerful. Life is more fun when we are with people around and connecting with this.

Courtney Nicole:

They, there was really funny during the pandemic when Disneyland started to reopen, because they had had to shut everything down. So they had this commercial that was supposed to be like, welcome back, we're ready for you. And it actually went viral on Twitter because people made it into a horror movie. Cause it was so creepy to see Disneyland completely empty. And just this guy in a mask, like wiping down rails and this other guy in a mask sweeping the streets. And you're just like, that is scary stuff. Nobody wants to think of Disneyland empty. Like people just go blehhhhhhh. So, yes, I think we are absolutely meant to be there with other people. Cause I would not go, even if someone offered me a free ticket, there's no way I would go to one of those places on my own. The magic's gone. The joy is gone, the light, the laughter, the screaming, you want it all in order to really enjoy it.

Juliana:

Yeah. Yeah. And I think it's also fine to change the people that go with us on the way. So in some periods of our life, you have some friends or very close to some people because for different reasons. You are starting together, you live close by, you are, you know, on the same project, whatever. And then at some point it's okay if those, you know, paths separate a bit. And then you're going to meet other people. So it's having this flexibility. And yeah, understand that you change, I change, people change. So we are going to be connected, closely, certain periods of time. And another time you're going to open up to meet other people. That's that's also interesting.

Courtney Nicole:

Ah, beautiful journey. I love it. All right. Well, I think we'll probably wrap it up there. Do you want to tell people how to get in touch with you, or a little bit more about some of the work that you do, or the problems that you solve? If people are like, Oh, Juliana, she is amazing. How do I have another conversation? I would you like people to get in touch?

Juliana:

Good. Good. So what I'm doing now is helping people to land remote jobs faster So I'm working as a career coach. And I love doing that because I bring my recruiter background and my psychology background, all of that to help people to live the life they want, to live their dream. And a remote job can help you to not only work, but to have a job in a career that is aligned with the things you love, the things you want to do more, where you want to leave. So it's all connected to what I mentioned before. I believe that work is an important pillar in life. It's important part, but it's not all of that. It's not necessarily the most important, but I want to help people to fix that part. You can find me on LinkedIn, on my website, just search for Juliana Rabbi it's R A B B I, also on Instagram, so it's always Juliana Rabbi. LinkedIn, Instagram, my website. And I'll be happy to, to talk more than, yeah. Go deeper into those career and life questions.

Courtney Nicole:

Thanks so much for joining us for the podcast today, and I hope you learned some valuable lessons that will help you on your journey to success. If you're interested in coaching with me, you can check out Nonpareilcoaching.com. That's NONPAREILcoaching.com. Courtney Nicole can be found on most social medias. You can also slide into my DMS on Instagram@courtandwhiskey. If you're interested in being a guest on this podcast, you can check out our website it's just the acronym for what our parents didn't teach us.com. www.WOPDTU.com to be a guest on the podcast. You can find us wherever you find your podcasts. Don't forget: the universe is conspiring with you.